"It'a match" is always a great feeling. It also means, you will want to chat, know each other, probably go for a couple of virtual dates and then you would meet your match.
After a couple of dates maybe, when you have this feeling: "This ain't my cuppa tea," then you would not want to take it forward or make any sort of commitment. We are fortunately in a generation or period where we have the right or choice to do that.
But, when it comes to community, a bad date does not mean break-up. You have to make it work. Please read to know why I am getting all emotional about 'One True Love'.
Community = Commitment
When I say the above statement, I actually mean it, and it's definitely not for the alliteration sake. When your business finds a match with community (as a concept and a platform to host), you are fascinated about the beautiful dates you are gonna have; You are also excited about the conversations and what not!
But, when there is going to be some silence and some low enthusiasm from community, you need to have a dialogue, probe and analyse what went wrong. Not curse, not fight but understand what keeps your community away from engagement or lack of participation and work towards it.
But, the best solution to avoid this mishap is to ask yourself some solid questions before you find your match. Specifically this time, you are not going for a date, but you are gonna settle for "One true love" and that is your community.
Before you decide...
These are the questions you should ask
KEEP IN MIND: "Focus on 'Return Of Expectation' rather than, 'Return Of Investment', as mentioned by Vineet Nandan Gupta, Growth Consultant, who helps scaling your business with Community .
NOTES
The above questions are crowdsourced. A couple of Community Professionals helped me with these questions that sided with the discussion on, "if businesses are community ready."
Thanks to Biswajeeta Rath, Himanshu Khubwani, Parul Gupta, Ankita Tripati, Vineet Nandan Gupta for helping me out.
Here is the link to my LinkedIn post: https://www.linkedin.com/posts/varalakshmi-dwaraknath-430533b8_thank-you-for-all-your-amazing-questions-activity-6810489861850697729-OLKr
Thank you very much for this article! I think we all need to know more about love, for sure. This is one of the most important feelings in our live, you know. Only when I have read some articles and especially the one that sad about the first sign your wife doesn't love you - https://calmerry.com/blog/relations/how-to-tell-that-your-wife-doesnt-love-you-anymore/#She_Becomes_Distant - I learned a lot about myself and about my relationships. It's weird for me, that we don't learn things like this in school.