I'm Building CoupleRef.com - An AI Alternative to Couples Therapy. I started this project after realizing that five more sessions of couples therapy would cost more than taking my wife to an all-inclusive resort for a week — flights included.
Instead of trying to replicate traditional therapy (weekly one-hour sessions on a couch), CoupleRef helps you quickly get to the heart of your issues and learn practical ways to repair and reconnect. Pre Alpha Version of CoupleRef is live as of Oct 21
Users start by completing short, gold-standard psychological assessments. Your results personalize CoupleRef’s AI, allowing it to mirror how you and your partner think, feel, and communicate — capturing the emotional dynamics between you.
From there, CoupleRef presents detailed, easy-to-understand reports that help you see your emotional needs, communication patterns, and relationship dynamics more clearly. Then it guides you and your partner through structured exercises that teach you how to express needs safely, listen with empathy, and escape negative cycles of conflict.
A core part of CoupleRef is applied learning. Based on your assessments and discussions, it generates therapy-inspired lessons tailored to your specific patterns — so you can immediately apply what you learn in real conversations.
It can even act as a kind of referee when you’re in a disagreement, helping both partners be heard without taking sides.
I'm seeking a partner who can focus on growth while I manage product development. If you're interested, take a look at https://CoupleRef.com at reach out.