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Any new dads around?

Hey, Indie Hackers πŸ‘‹ I am Nazli MD. I am a pediatrician I worked with a lot of newbie dads and moms during my professional career. Becoming parents makes a huge difference in our lives. It is a totally new era and really challenging

So I want to make a contribution in my area to the indie hackers community. I am building an info product "Bite sized tips for newbie parents" It has my experience and curated content from the most prestigious health organizations; tips from lactation consultants, pediatricians, and psychologists🀩

My pre-product is ready and coming soon πŸ₯³"A unique checklist for dad-to-be's" Simple checklist before meeting your babyβœ…
It is coming soon

Go on and check it 😎

https://www.producthunt.com/upcoming/a-genuine-checklist-for-new-dad-to-be-s/c/content?variant=a.

on April 18, 2022
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    My daughter is 3 weeks old!

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      Hey! Today I launched "A Unique Checklist for new dad to be's" on ProductHunt
      Check it! Looking forward to hear your feedback! Thanks πŸ©ΊπŸ‘©πŸ»β€βš•οΈπŸ₯°

      https://www.producthunt.com/posts/a-unique-checklist-for-dad-to-be-s?comment=1805047

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      Hey, newbie dad :) how is going? Good Luck !

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    Not really a new dad but a dad of 3 - all the best with the product πŸ˜€

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      Hey! Today I launched "A Unique Checklist for new dad to be's" on ProductHunt
      Check it! Looking forward to hear your feedback! Thanks πŸ©ΊπŸ‘©πŸ»β€βš•οΈπŸ₯°

      https://www.producthunt.com/posts/a-unique-checklist-for-dad-to-be-s?comment=1805047

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      Hey Maxwell, thank you. So you are a pro-dad🀩 we have a lot of new dads here. Do you have any advice/tips for them? πŸ₯°

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        We have many indie hacker dads in the WBE Space. Max is one of them :)

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          Oh cool, I will check it, Hello to Max πŸ‘‹ And a big warm hello to Max

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    Is the checklist also made for those dads that have a 1 yo kid?

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      Hey, thank you for your question!
      This is designed for newbie dads. But if you have any questions that I can help, I am happy to help! :)

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    πŸ™‹β€β™‚οΈ

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      Hey! Today I launched "A Unique Checklist for new dad to be's" on ProductHunt
      Check it! Looking forward to hear your feedback! Thanks πŸ©ΊπŸ‘©πŸ»β€βš•οΈπŸ₯°

      https://www.producthunt.com/posts/a-unique-checklist-for-dad-to-be-s?comment=1805047

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    I have a 10 -months old too. Great to see so many new dads here!, all the best to your launch :D

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      Yes, I am pretty surprised too. And I think it is really cool. 🀩 Let's create a supportive community here 🧑 Thank youuu πŸ₯°

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    Mine's 7 months old now. Time flies!

    Honestly, it's hard to manage time. I'm a freelancer and trying to do some indiehacking on the side. I used to get in a good full work week. Now I'm struggling to get full four workdays. Not complaining though, that little rascal is the best thing ever!

    One of the benefits I experience is that when I work on some of the indiehacking projects I'm very conscious about my time so everytime I work on it I can knock out a very specific thing. Progress that's slow is still progress 😊

    Curious on your insights!

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      Hey Kevan, thank you for your contribution πŸ₯° Δ°f we check the self-benefits of being a parent, becoming a time management ninja is a true fact. 🀩 Do you have any tips for newbie indie fathers?

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        Not really πŸ˜‚ Just be time conscious. Plan little things you know you like to tackle ahead and make sure you know you can do it in an ~hour or so. Also sleep above all else. You're going to need it πŸ˜‰

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          Hahaha πŸ˜‚ You know what they say, sleep when the baby sleeps, eat when baby eats, do laundry when baby does laundry, work when baby works πŸ₯Ή

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      Hey! Today I launched "A Unique Checklist for new dad to be's" on ProductHunt
      Check it! Looking forward to hear your feedback! Thanks πŸ©ΊπŸ‘©πŸ»β€βš•οΈπŸ₯°

      https://www.producthunt.com/posts/a-unique-checklist-for-dad-to-be-s?comment=1805047

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    I have a new 3 month'er (I refuse to talk in weeks... it's stupid... why does everyone do that! :-) )...

    Thanks for posting this... it's been a whirlwind and I'm curious to see this thread. Being a new dad has destroyed by work schedule and I very naively believed I would still have some time in the evenings when he was 'sleeping' to finish up work... Now I'm a morning person and finding a new routine until it all changes again next week! Honestly, I've been very lucky and our kid has been great. It's just been a crazy adjustment to everything that I do!

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      Hey! Today I launched "A Unique Checklist for new dad to be's" on ProductHunt
      Check it! Looking forward to hear your feedback! Thanks πŸ©ΊπŸ‘©πŸ»β€βš•οΈπŸ₯°

      https://www.producthunt.com/posts/a-unique-checklist-for-dad-to-be-s?comment=1805047

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      Hey Dave, thank you I think we have to talk more about this challenging transition. You love your baby but it is totally normal when you don't like being a parent. It is so human. For mums and dads. We have to talk this is really hard.

      Missing your old life and being in love with your baby at the same time. I am here for support 🧑

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        Thanks! And I think there is way too much pressure (especially for my wife) around what the experience is supposed to be... not necessarily what it really is. Not everything is magical... but that's ok. That's living in reality not some sort of fantasy land!

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          Yes, you are right, it is more challenging if you are a woman, We have imaginary expectations about becoming a mother. It makes everything so much harder πŸ₯²

          I really like this TEDtalk, Alexandra Sacks is a Reproductive Psychiatrist and gives us a great point of view! I don't know how strongly can I recommend to watch it with your wife :)

          Sometimes we can't solve our problems. But been seen and knowing that you are being understood makes a huge difference πŸ₯³

          https://www.ted.com/talks/alexandra_sacks_a_new_way_to_think_about_the_transition_to_motherhood?language=en

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    I have a 3 years old, and time passes by faster than I thought

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      Hey! Today I launched "A Unique Checklist for new dad to be's" on ProductHunt
      Check it! Looking forward to hear your feedback! Thanks πŸ©ΊπŸ‘©πŸ»β€βš•οΈπŸ₯°

      https://www.producthunt.com/posts/a-unique-checklist-for-dad-to-be-s?comment=1805047

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      Oh how cute 🀩 So you get over terrible two, how was that?

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    Hello Nazli,
    I look forward to it as the father of twins. As a father of 1 child aged 7 and 2 children aged 4, I really need this list. :)
    Thank you for considering such a product. Good luck.

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      Hey! Today I launched "A Unique Checklist for new dad to be's" on ProductHunt
      Check it! Looking forward to hear your feedback! Thanks πŸ©ΊπŸ‘©πŸ»β€βš•οΈπŸ₯°

      https://www.producthunt.com/posts/a-unique-checklist-for-dad-to-be-s?comment=1805047

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      Hey, Thank you. After 3 kids you must be a pro-dad πŸ˜‡
      You give me the idea for adding a special section for fathers of twins :)
      Do you have any tips for new fathers ? 🀩

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        My biggest advice for new fathers is to control your nerves, be patient :))

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    Got a 1 year old. I cant believe its been 1 whole year already!

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      Hey! Today I launched "A Unique Checklist for new dad to be's" on ProductHunt
      Check it! Looking forward to hear your feedback! Thanks πŸ©ΊπŸ‘©πŸ»β€βš•οΈπŸ₯°

      https://www.producthunt.com/posts/a-unique-checklist-for-dad-to-be-s?comment=1805047

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      Oh, cutie🀩 How was the first year so far?

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        First year's been a waiting game. Waiting for him to go to sleep. Waiting for him to crawl. Waiting for him to walk. Only 17 more years of this to go.

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    As a dad of 8 and 9 year olds myself, one thing you should add in your info. course is that "one size does not fit all". What may work for 1 dad may not work for another. Perhaps, you can interview dads and share their experiences. That can be useful. All the best.

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      Hey! Today I launched "A Unique Checklist for new dad to be's" on ProductHunt
      Check it! Looking forward to hear your feedback! Thanks πŸ©ΊπŸ‘©πŸ»β€βš•οΈπŸ₯°

      https://www.producthunt.com/posts/a-unique-checklist-for-dad-to-be-s?comment=1805047

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      Hey, thank you, "One size does not fit all" is a great approach and I am totally in it.
      Every family's dynamic needs of every baby or child are different. We have to consider it and give a tailored approach to all. Supersonic comment !🀩

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    Have a 8-year old and 12-year old.

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      Hey! Today I launched "A Unique Checklist for new dad to be's" on ProductHunt
      Check it! Looking forward to hear your feedback! Thanks πŸ©ΊπŸ‘©πŸ»β€βš•οΈπŸ₯°

      https://www.producthunt.com/posts/a-unique-checklist-for-dad-to-be-s?comment=1805047

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      Wow, cool 🀩 How is indie hacking and being a dad going together? Do you have any "I wish I knew before" moments?

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    This June or maybe the last week of May

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      Hey! Today I launched "A Unique Checklist for new dad to be's" on ProductHunt
      Check it! Looking forward to hear your feedback! Thanks πŸ©ΊπŸ‘©πŸ»β€βš•οΈπŸ₯°

      https://www.producthunt.com/posts/a-unique-checklist-for-dad-to-be-s?comment=1805047

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        Congratulations Nazli!!
        Best of luck to your launch πŸš€

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      Oh, it is so close, you must be really excited. There must be a lot of questions in your mind πŸ€—

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        Yes!! We are really excited! but I think we are prepared (I think haha)

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          CuteeπŸ₯° Best of luck!

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      Oh, congrats 🀩 Are you a first-time parent? How are you feeling?

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        Thanks! Yes, I'll be a first-time parent. Excited. Trying to prepare myself not to focus so much on work and make the transition into spending time with my son.

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          Yes, you are right, First weeks never come back. And fathers when they are getting used to taking care of a baby early as possible, They are so much more comfortable later on. Have you ever heard of "kangaroo care" 🦘? It is a way of early skin-to-skin contact. We recommend doing it early as possible after the birth with mothers and also fathers.

          Good luck!

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      Hey! Today I launched "A Unique Checklist for new dad to be's" on ProductHunt
      Check it! Looking forward to hear your feedback! Thanks πŸ©ΊπŸ‘©πŸ»β€βš•οΈπŸ₯°

      https://www.producthunt.com/posts/a-unique-checklist-for-dad-to-be-s?comment=1805047

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    Recent first time parent, now to a 2 year old toddler! This would help, especially helping us indie dads juggled care duties vs working on our side projects

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      Hey! Today I launched "A Unique Checklist for new dad to be's" on ProductHunt
      Check it! Looking forward to hear your feedback! Thanks πŸ©ΊπŸ‘©πŸ»β€βš•οΈπŸ₯°

      https://www.producthunt.com/posts/a-unique-checklist-for-dad-to-be-s?comment=1805047

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      Oh, thank you for your commentπŸ˜„, Yes I am to reach indie-dads πŸ€— I love to hear your feedback after the launch Jason πŸ‘€ Any advice/tips to indie dads?

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        Looking forward to seeing the product!

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    Will be soon! I'll check it out πŸ™

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      Hey! Today I launched "A Unique Checklist for new dad to be's" on ProductHunt
      Check it! Looking forward to hear your feedback! Thanks πŸ©ΊπŸ‘©πŸ»β€βš•οΈπŸ₯°

      https://www.producthunt.com/posts/a-unique-checklist-for-dad-to-be-s?comment=1805047

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      Oh great! and Congratulations πŸ₯³

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    yes I checked it is great.

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    Hey, I launched A unique checklist for dad-to-be's today on ProductHunt.
    A great fathers day gift!

    Check it!

    https://www.producthunt.com/posts/a-unique-checklist-for-dad-to-be-s?comment=1805047

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      Oh, It is verrry challenging is not it? What is the thing that exhausts you most?
      May the force with you🦾 πŸ™

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          At dinner time, and evenings I can recommend a two things
          1-When kids are involved cooking process they show up better eaters. So you may find a way to their contribution of preparing dinner. Spreading cheese on the salad, bringing slices of bread to the table, deciding together what to cook or even picking veggies or fruits at shopping

          2-Sometimes kids feel super uncomfortable in their high chairs. Δ°magine yourself on a chair that doubles or triples your height, your feed is not on the ground. UX of the high chair is not designed for babies but designed for adults. Check if there are any ways to make it more comfortable. :)

          Good luck!

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            When kids are involved cooking process

            lmao what could go wrong

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              Hey! Today I launched "A Unique Checklist for new dad to be's" on ProductHunt
              Check it! Looking forward to hear your feedback! Thanks πŸ©ΊπŸ‘©πŸ»β€βš•οΈπŸ₯°

              https://www.producthunt.com/posts/a-unique-checklist-for-dad-to-be-s?comment=1805047

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              Oh, let me choose a better word; preparing f food for example picking from groceries, counting strawberries and practicing math, tearing lettuce for salad, adding ingredients, dressing pizza, etc.

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              I did not know that Stokke brand high chair. Looks great!

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                  Hey! Today I launched "A Unique Checklist for new dad to be's" on ProductHunt
                  Check it! Looking forward to hear your feedback! Thanks πŸ©ΊπŸ‘©πŸ»β€βš•οΈπŸ₯°

                  https://www.producthunt.com/posts/a-unique-checklist-for-dad-to-be-s?comment=1805047

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                  The last sentence made me laugh 🀩 Cool :)
                  Thank for the advice!