Building Unjam keeps reminding me that the thoughts people carry aren’t always dramatic.
Sometimes they’re created from a single word.
A delayed reply.
A different tone.
An unanswered message.
Our minds naturally fill in the blanks.
The problem is we usually think we’re the only ones doing it.
That’s why I keep coming back to the same philosophy:
Recognition before advice.
Because realizing other people overthink the exact same things can make those thoughts feel a little lighter.