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Founders benefit more from inexperienced friends who push them to action.
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Aziz Akgul
https://twitter.com/azizakgul/status/1522171390958440448?s=20&t=wzFyy8xKLkmHIm-Ydz-8dQ
A blend of experience and youthful nativity is the perfect mix. I agree that inexperience can be a huge benefit in tackling problems in different ways and having an irrational confidence to go after opportunities that others may avoid. A guiding hand is always helpful to avoid learned mistakes and leverage best practices
Yes, a healthy balance is always the key in life
Founders benefit from FRIENDS, period. If you're paying attention to the news these days, you'd see that this is the loneliest time in history. People have less friends than they ever have, less romantic partners, and just generally less social relationships. It's pretty sad.
So I'd say it's less important whether your friends are experienced or inexperienced, and it's more important that you just have friends at all. It sounds crazy, but most people (I'm no exception) are lucky to have 1-3 good friends. It's an unfortunate world we live, but friends are hard to come by, and their impact is important, regardless of their professional background.
You're right Aneej, especially a bootstrapped solopreneur is a very lonely life. And I cherish all my friends whether they are an experienced entrepreneur or not. My post was about a specific kind of discussion with friends, assuming one already has a healthy circle of friends.
I guess building strong friendships is not that different from working on our mental & physical health or growing our startup. By which I mean it takes a lot of effort.
Couple of things that work for me:
• I try to provide value to people around me.
• I don't take anything they do for me for granted.
• And I try to be the person that I'd want to be friends with.
Curse of knowledge is a real thing, and I always like to discuss problems with external parties with no skin in the game to make sure my messaging is clear or if I'm going in the right direction
For me, it really depends. My friends who are inexperienced in entrepreneurship / Indie Hacking tend to be less supportive. Even when they're trying, it's often redundant - "don't worry," "keep going," doesn't mean much when they don't understand the gravity of what I'm facing or the sacrifice that attempting to fix something would entail.
Zach I call these my "lazy friends" :)
It takes an effort to think about your situation and come up with an idea or comment so most people don't bother. Not just indie hacking but in all important decisions.
That's why I cherish any friend who takes the time and energy to use some brain cells about my predicament.
This is an interesting thought. Something I believe in and much of the basis for Oxogen.io. Different perspectives are vital for startups.
I think both have value but the inexperienced friends ask naive questions and have a point of view probably closer to your target market.
Of Course I didn't mean to suggest that you should disregard your experienced friends.
As you pointed out, the naive point of view is usually more straight forward. I've found in years of app building that the big hurdles are usually not caused by lack of technical knowledge. It's mostly trying to come up with an optimum solution in your mind where there are an unlimited amount of unknowns.
Congrats on the new project. So here's me pushing you :) Why wait till June?
Absolutely!
Oh do like to be a challenged! - 2 reasons:
I think a great way to refine the value proposition would be to start this week with a cohort of around 10 of your founder friends on a Slack team or on https://circle.so/
By June you'll a full month's worth of real life experience of what works and what doesn't.
Love it - its a good shout and will get that up over weekend