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How to be an awesome community member

The challenge of open and free communities is real. I strive to create the best space possible, but it's hard when people come in without the same understanding or mindset.

So, I thought I'd write down some ideas about what makes a great community member, in general, but written thinking about Indie Hackers.

  • Introduce yourself: find a good place to say hello and talk about the things you are into.
  • Lurk first: get a feel for the conversations that are happening
  • Look for posts that work: what are the best posts? Why are they the best? Adapt your posts so that they resonate with the community.
  • Dip your toes in: refrain from being selfish. Focus on giving and helping. A community is not about you, it's about us.
  • Comment before starting a post: start contributing by commenting. It's less scary and it gives you a real chance to contribute.
  • Imagine the community is an IRL party: behave in a human way, get to know people, and help people out. Don't behave in a way that would normally get you kicked out of a party.
  • Impact takes time: good things come to those who wait, help and invest their time.

What else would you add to this list?

on September 9, 2020
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    Great list!

    If everyone followed that, wow.

    It took me months to learn how Indie Hackers worked (lurked), then I slowly started commenting (Dip your toes in). After I felt comfortable doing that I started posting.

    I have got amazing results from IHs, but I never really did it for the results.

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    This is an important post. These points should be pinned on each group!

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      Agree this should be pinned!

  3. 2

    I'm new to this community but I'm already amazed by the way people behave in here and how constructive discussions are.

    That list is great and I think most people here already follow many of those ideas!

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    Great list! Giving and helping is THE fastest way to get value from Indie Hackers in my opinion. Often overlooked by many new users I think.

    I would also add just being nice and constructive. Everyone here is at different points in their life and entrepreneurship is a VERY personal journey that's different for everyone. Being nice and constructive to each other makes it easier to ride this wave out :)

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    This post has so much value in it. It is not about you, it's about us.
    This post should be pinned.\

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    Love this :)

    I might add:

    • Read the room. Is this a place where people are hardcore and calling each other out in the comments? Or is the vibe more supportive, tolerant and patient? Do politics make their way into the comments a lot, or nah? Tailor your comments to fit in with the existing cultural 'voice.'

    (Might just be a longer-winded way of restating your "Imagine it's a party" item.)

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    love this. simple code of conduct... but, not that. yay!

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    Hey, Rosie

    I think you summed up what it means to be a great community member

    I remember lurking months before actually putting the courage to respond to a post or a comment

    Back to the lurking shadows I go

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    I'd add looking around the site a bit to get familiar with how it works, its tools, and resources.

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