I built DatingWaitlists

I built DatingWaitlists because dating apps feel too noisy, too random, and too optimized for endless browsing instead of real connections.
The idea is simple: give people a shareable dating identity and a private code so they can signal when they’re open to meeting someone, instead of forcing everyone into the same swipe-based funnel.

What I’m building:

• A personal dating waitlist, not another dating app.

• A private code system for controlled access.

• A simpler way to move from interest to actual dates.

I’m still early, but I think the core insight is real: people don’t always want more matches — they want clearer intent.

Would love feedback from other founders:

• Is this a real problem or just a nice-to-have?

• Would you use a waitlist-based dating product?

• What would make this feel trustworthy and not weird?