This is what most people say when I tell them I do.
And I totally understand what they mean. It’s scary.
This is what people are usually afraid of:
🔷 The limit between work and life gets blurred.
🔷 You speak your mind much more freely than you would with a colleague. So feelings can get hurt.
🔷 You'd spend a lot of time (too much?) with your spouse.
🔷 You'd fight and argue much more. Every couple argues in private, but if you add work on top of it, you should fight more.
After 1 year of working with my wife (Lucie), I can honestly say that all these fears are justified 🤣 .
But, all you need are a few adjustments.
And once you've set those up, you cannot DREAM of a better business partner. 🙌 ❤️
Here are the 3 main adjustments we made:
We place fun and passion at the center of our project. The idea is to always have fun, do what we want and support each other in the process.
We defined roles really well. We know exactly what each one has to do. This is key. So there are no misplaced expectations and we don't step on each other's toes.
We never talk about work outside work hours.
➡️ So don't be afraid to work with your spouse.
Once you get it right, it's really cool. ✌️
Thanks for reading,
B.
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I work with my wife:-)
How is it going? :)
We have different areas of expertise, strength, weakness, and responsibility. I can talk biz any time of the day, but she has her work hours. So I schedule time with her to discuss biz related issues. We work in different rooms most of the time. It has been working out OK. We still have some issues, but the cons are little compared to the pros.
Awesome having separate responsibilities is clearly the best way to approach this. But like with any other collaboration really.