Figured this might help someone else avoid the same mistake.
Earlier this year I went all in on the AI girlfriend trend. Chatbot first, then added image generation. Seemed like easy money - huge demand, people clearly paying for this stuff, how hard could it be?
3 months later I had:
The image generation was shit. Tried multiple models, none of them produced anything good enough. But that wasn't even the real problem.
The real problem: nobody wants to work with you in the adult industry.
Payment processors? Stripe, PayPal - instant no. The alternatives are sketchy, expensive, or both. Finding affiliates to promote it? Everyone ghosts you when they hear what it is. Even basic infrastructure stuff becomes 10x harder when you're in that space.
And the competition is insane. You're up against teams with actual budgets and years of head start.
I finally quit when I realized I was spending more time fighting the ecosystem than building the product.
The pivot
Took a week off, then asked myself a different question: what's a big, validated market where people actually pay, and I'm not fighting uphill just to exist?
Landed on B2B SaaS. Boring compared to AI girlfriends, but:
Built my current SaaS in 2 days using Claude. Not 2 months. 2 days.
It's been live for 2 weeks. I already have my first paying customer.
What I learned
The "hot trend" market isn't always the smart market. I got seduced by demand without thinking about everything else - payment infrastructure, reputation, competition, margins.
Sometimes boring is better. B2B SaaS isn't sexy but no one's blocking my Stripe account.
Speed matters more than perfection. My AI girlfriend app had 3 months of "polish" that got me nowhere. The new thing was ugly on day one but it was live and making money in 2 weeks.
If you're chasing a trend right now, ask yourself: even if people want this, can I actually build a business around it? Who will process payments? Who will promote it? Who's already dominating?
I’ve tried a bunch of AI companion apps, but the one that actually felt natural for me was at https://rubychat.app/ai-girlfriend because I could tweak the character’s vibe and set up little scenarios that made chats way more fun. I liked that my convos stayed private and I never got ghosted, which was a nice change of pace