I've been talking to solo founders for months and I keep hearing the same three answers, never the same one twice in a row.
Some can't get anyone to look at them. Some get attention but nobody signs. And some — this is the group I'd underestimated — have leads, have a working offer, and still lose their week because they can't decide what to work on today.
I'm curious which one is actually dominant, because most advice online assumes the first.
So: right now, this week, which one is costing you the most?
Not enough people know I exist
People look, nobody buys
I have the inputs, I just can't pick the right action
And a follow-up if you're up for it: what did you try last that moved the needle on it, even slightly?
I'll reply to everyone.
ConvertKit is the one I'd point to. October 2014, 22 months in, Nathan Barry was at $1,207 MRR and Hiten Shah told him to kill it. But he had leads. He had a product people wanted. He says it himself somewhere in his sales writeup: he'd email someone, get a real reply, get excited about it, and then just never follow up. Trail goes cold, he moves on to whatever he was building. What fixed it wasn't a new channel. He put every conversation on a Trello board so he physically couldn't forget to follow up, and then emailed around 100 authors on LeanPub and Udemy. Got 5-7 customers out of that. $5k MRR by March, $10k by June, $97k by December. So the cost was 22 months. Not one blown deal, just a long stretch where he had everything he needed and kept picking the task that couldn't reject him. That's why it's hard to measure. Nothing shows up as a loss.
Happy to. Short version, since it's useful in the thread anyway. he way I approach it now is to make the choice a fixed step instead of something I do while opening my laptop. Every morning: one action, and it has to be one that produces a yes or a no from someone outside my business. Then I write down the number that will prove it worked before I start — not "reach out to prospects" but "8 emails sent, 3 replies." If I can't name that number in advance, the action is too vague and I've picked the wrong one.The part that actually changed my behaviour is logging what I got against what I said I'd get. I thought I was consistent. The log said otherwise, and there's no arguing with your own numbers. Contact section on the site is the best way to reach me.What's the context, out of curiosity?
Thanks! I’ve just sent it over.
Looking forward to hearing your thoughts whenever you have a chance.
The point about changing the landing page after a handful of visits is the sharpest thing in this thread so far. You can't learn anything from five people not converting, but the sample feels huge when it's all you have. So you rebuild the page, and now you can't even compare the next five to the last five.
And the discipline part you mention is the whole thing, isn't it. Targeted conversations are slow, unglamorous, and produce nothing you can put on a chart for weeks. Posting broadly at least gives you a number that moves that same day. It's the safer-feeling action every time.
One thing I'd push back on gently: you're calling it #1, but what you're describing sounds more like #3 wearing a #1 costume. You know the answer — targeted conversations in niche communities. You've watched it work. The hard part isn't identifying it, it's choosing it again tomorrow when it produced nothing yesterday.
The batch idea is the right instinct, and the number you picked matters less than committing to it before you start. 20 or 30, either works. What kills it is renegotiating the number at conversation 12 when nothing has happened yet, which is exactly when you'll want to.
Two things I'd add.
Write down what a working channel looks like before you begin, in a number. Not "it feels like it's working" — something like 3 replies out of 25, or 1 call booked. Otherwise you'll judge the batch by how it felt, and it'll feel bad regardless, because 25 targeted conversations spread over three weeks always feels like nothing while you're inside it.
And your landing page rule needs a threshold. "Same objection repeatedly" becomes "twice" the moment you're tempted. Pick the number now — three people, same objection, unprompted — and it stops being a judgment call later.
The thing you're actually building here isn't a channel test. It's the ability to keep doing work that gives you no feedback for two weeks. That's rarer than it sounds, and it's most of the game.
One trick that helps with the no-feedback stretch: log the input, not the outcome. 5 conversations sent today, not 0 replies today. Same day, same work, completely different thing to look at on day 9 when nothing has come back yet.
That's exactly it.