It’s a familiar feeling for most indie hackers. You get the idea. You validate just enough to believe in it. You lock yourself in a room and start building like hell. Then comes launch day. You post to Product Hunt, Hacker News, Reddit, maybe even drop a few tweets. You wait. You hope. And then… it falls flat.
No signups. No traction. Maybe a few comments, mostly from your friends. And inside, that familiar question starts creeping in: Is it me? Is it the product? Or is it just not meant to work?
I’ve launched multiple projects that ended just like this — quietly. They didn’t blow up, they didn’t crash. They just faded. And for a long time, I thought it was because I was doing something wrong in the build. But over time, I’ve come to learn the hard truth: most projects don’t fail because of poor execution. They fail because the founder never learned to think beyond the build.
We Think Like Makers, Not Marketers
This is where most indie hackers, myself included, fall into a trap. We love making things. We love the craft, the control, the “just me and my laptop at 2 a.m.” feeling. But we forget something crucial — making is not the same as building a business.
For a product to succeed, someone has to see it. Understand it. Want it. Trust it. Pay for it. That doesn’t happen through clean code or beautiful design. That happens through distribution, communication, and user understanding — the very skills we ignore.
So we keep building more features, hoping that this next one will be the thing that makes people care. But all it does is bury us deeper. More code. Less feedback. No traction.
It took me years to realize this. But once I did, everything changed.
The Shift That Changed Everything
Instead of starting with code, I started with the problem. Not just any problem — a specific, frustrating, recurring problem I knew people had.
Before I touched the editor, I started talking. I joined communities where my potential users already were. I listened to what they said, what they complained about, what they paid for. And I shared my thoughts, even before I had anything to show. I started treating distribution not as a final step, but as the first step.
When I finally started building again, I already had an audience. Not a huge one — maybe 200 followers, 50 engaged Reddit users, a few helpful DMs — but enough to ship with momentum. I wasn’t launching into the void anymore. I was building something for people who were already paying attention.
And it wasn’t just about having followers. It was about understanding pain. The copy on my landing page improved. The UX made more sense. I was building with feedback baked in.
Building in Public (Actually)
Let’s talk about “building in public.” It’s trendy now. But most people do it wrong.
They post glossy screenshots. They share MRR updates. They flex on timelines.
That’s not building in public. That’s marketing with a maker’s disguise.
The real value of building in public comes when you share things that don’t look perfect. When you write about the decision you struggled with. The bug that burned hours. The user that churned and what you learned from it.
That’s what earns attention. That’s what builds trust. When you’re honest about your journey, people root for you. Not just because of your product, but because of your process.
And that’s powerful — because people buy from those they trust.
The Power of One User a Day
Forget going viral. Forget being “Product of the Day.” What turned my project around wasn’t a huge launch. It was a tiny goal: help one person a day.
Every day, I looked for one real human with the problem I was solving. I answered questions in communities. I replied to comments. I sent DMs that weren’t sales pitches — just offers to help.
This daily discipline did two things. One, it gave me constant feedback on my product. And two, it made sure I always had momentum. Because if I helped one person today, tomorrow wasn’t about hope — it was about continuing.
That’s what traction actually looks like. Not spikes. Not tweets. Just people saying, “Yeah, this helped me.”
Content Over Features
Once I made the shift from building to sharing, I started treating everything as content.
Bug fix? That’s a devlog post.
New feature? That’s a “what I learned while building this” article.
User feedback? That’s a thread on things you didn’t expect to hear.
Suddenly, I wasn’t just writing code — I was creating a feedback loop.
People started following. Others started sharing. My SEO began to rank. My Indie Hackers posts didn’t get ignored anymore — they started conversations.
All because I took what I was already doing, and started telling stories about it.
The Indie Hacker Advantage
The truth is, solo builders have an edge — but only if we stop trying to look like companies.
You don’t need a perfect product to get users. You need a real reason to exist.
You don’t need a big team. You need one clear goal, repeated daily.
You don’t need to fake scale. You just need to show up where your people are.
And you don’t need to build forever. You need to ship small, write more, and talk often.
That’s what I wish I knew when I launched my first project. That’s what I finally figured out, after failing quietly and building loudly.
Final Thoughts
If your indie project is stuck, it’s not because it isn’t good enough.
It’s probably because no one knows how it helps them, or why they should care.
You don’t fix that with code. You fix that with clarity, conversation, and showing up every day with something useful — even if it’s small.
Start now.
One post.
One user.
One problem solved.
You don’t need to grow fast.
You just need to grow consistently.
That’s how you build something real.
Great framing on shifting from consuming to creating. That point about avoiding endless prep really resonates
If your indie project is stuck, it's not because it isn't good enough.
It's probably because no one knows how it helps them, or why they should care.
You don't fix that with code. You fix that with clarity, conversation, and showing up every day with something useful — even if it's small.
Start now.
One post.
One user.
One problem solved.
You don't need to grow fast.
You just need to grow consistently.
That's how you build something real.
P.S. I've been documenting these patterns and psychological barriers that keep indie hackers stuck in a deeper analysis. If this resonated with you, I'm working on "The Launch Paradox" - a book about why most launches fail and the counterintuitive strategies that actually work.
It's born from analyzing 500+ failed launches and my own expensive mistakes. Not ready yet, but you can follow the journey on my profile if you're interested in the psychology behind why we self-sabotage our own success.
This resonates with me so hard. I'm in the middle of learning this lesson the painful way.
I've been that person locked in a room building features, convinced that if I just make it perfect enough, people will magically find it and care. So far gave shot to 4 ideas, noting took traction. Meanwhile, I've been avoiding the scary part - actually talking to humans about their problems.
I really like your "one user a day" approach. I've been thinking about traction all wrong - expecting some big viral moment instead of just... helping people consistently.
The "building in public" distinction you make is spot on too. I see so many polished posts that feel more like flexing than sharing. The messy, honest stuff which I relatable is what actually makes me want to follow someone's journey.
Thanks for this reality check.
Time to stop perfecting and start shipping + talking. 🙏
Amazing post man. Yeah, I just realized that it's not the product building that matters the most. It's who knows about your product. Is it just you and / or your friends or your target audience... And I realized it late... after launching my first product. I only started building in public when I was about to finish building my product. As a dev, I thought once built, getting users is easy peasy. I was dead wrong...
We have to look at building SaaS from not a DEV perspective but from a businessman perspective. We make mistake of looking at this from DEV perspective and realize it later.
I came to this conclusion after observing at the vibe coders. They aint no software engineers, but vibe code some MVP, and get hundreds of users in no time. How? They look at this whole thing from totally different perspective: They gather their target audience first and then give them MVP within a week or whatever time it takes them.
Such a real take on what actually moves the needle...
This resonates hard. We were stuck in the same build-trap until noticing buyers kept alt-tabbing to calculators during checkout. Added a simple profit calculator and BOOM - 100K organic signups.
Just shared our full story [https://www.indiehackers.com/post/how-a-simple-calculator-took-our-buyer-growth-to-100k-and-how-you-can-find-your-version-of-this-8rWZ0iccOiwXeOL41wV5] in case it helps others spot their 'calculator moment'. Your point about shipping vs. building is gold.
Been there. Built, launched, got crickets. Took me way too long to realize it wasn’t the product — it was the lack of people who even saw it. Love how you framed the shift here.
I like how you're encouraging sharing through devlogs; Any concerns that can become something you churn on though? Something that actually ends up keeping you from working on other aspects that might be more impactful? Or would you say that these communications are that central to your success?
Yes, there is a risk that devlogs or public sharing become a productivity sink — especially if you're doing it to seek validation or dopamine from engagement rather than clarity.
But I’ve found that lightweight, intentional sharing actually acts as a forcing function:
It helps me think better (I often find what I’m building is clearer after I write it out)
It brings unexpected feedback that shapes the product early
It keeps me emotionally invested when other aspects (like marketing or debugging) feel dry
The key for me is setting constraints:
– One daily post, max 10–15 mins
– Focus on what shifted that day: a new insight, roadblock, user feedback, or shipped piece
So I’d say yes — communications are central to my momentum, but only when treated as part of the build process, not a separate content strategy. I call it "working out loud."
Nice article, i understand you and that's a complete truth
Thank you for your comment!
Thank you for sharing. I encountered the same problem as you did before. I found that I didn't seem to know where the target users were, and I seemed to have some fear and concern about public expression. I was not quite dare to publicly comment. Could you provide me with some suggestions?
Totally relate. I felt the same in my early attempts.
Here’s what helped me:
Start small — You don’t have to be loud to be public. Reply to just one post per day where someone is struggling with something you understand. No pitch. Just help.
Reframe it — Instead of thinking "I'm promoting," think:
“What would’ve helped me a few months ago?”
Turn that into a comment or post. Now it's service, not self-promotion.
Use the DM test — If you're scared to post publicly, imagine sending it as a DM to one person. If that feels natural, post it. You’re likely overestimating the spotlight.
Observe first — Follow 10–15 people who seem to attract the users you want. Study where they post and what problems their audience discusses. That’ll show you where your people hang out.
Your first few posts might feel awkward, but that discomfort fades fast. The upside is massive — every small share teaches you something, and connects you to someone.
You’ve got this 🔥 Happy to check your early drafts or brainstorm ways to phrase things too — just ping me.
Thank you so much for your reply. I really didn't expect you to answer my questions and doubts with such patience and meticulousness. I have learned a lot from your reply, such as starting from small things, paying attention to potential users, using DM instead of public posting, and other methods and techniques. I already know the direction for my next step. If I encounter new problems next time, I will still ask for your advice. I look forward to your reply. You are great and so nice(Thanks again).
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