
CozyParent
Be the dad who’s got it handled
At some point I realized I was planning my life in weeks. Week on, week off.
Sounds simple. Until you try to plan anything real. A trip, a meeting, even just a weekend away. You stop and start counting.
“Okay… this week is mine… next one is free… then mine again…”
You do it in your head, sometimes on your fingers, sometimes in the calendar just to be sure. And then you check again anyway. Not because it’s hard. You’re just never fully sure.
It gets worse when you look further ahead. Summer holidays, Christmas, school breaks. You want to plan something and realize you don’t actually know if it’s your week or not.
So you count again.
What I wanted was simple. To see it immediately. Which weeks are mine, which ones are free.
That’s one of the first things I built in CozyParent. Just a simple way to see it at a glance and stop doing the same mental math every time.
And it works.
You can try it out too on https://cozyparent.eu
I have 70+ projects in Lovable, and this is the first one where I genuinely feel like it could help others who’ve found themselves in the same situation as me.
Half a year ago, I split up with the mother of my two kids, who are eight and five. We agreed on a week-on / week-off co-parenting setup. On paper, we had everything figured out.
But then reality hit. And I realized very quickly that nothing is as simple as it looks at first glance.
Suddenly there was a ton of admin. A ton of planning. Deadlines everywhere. Activities piling up. It started to feel overwhelming.
Holidays began clashing with work. After-school activities started filling up huge chunks of the calendar. And at some point, the calendar itself just stopped being enough. Google just wasn’t cutting it anymore. And I could feel the pressure building more and more.
And then one day, I missed my daughter’s event.
That hits different. That one hurts.
And that’s how CozyParent was born.
I’m not a coder. I’m not a programmer. I’m not technical. But through experimenting with vibe coding, I decided to give it a shot — and for the first time, I built and launched an app end-to-end, completely on my own.
What did I need it to do, to make my life easier?
• clearly see when I have the kids
• know what’s coming and what needs attention — and how far in advance
• write down important things
• have everything in one place
• reduce the constant back and forth
It’s not perfect. But it’s a lot better. I feel like I’m back in control of the important stuff. Like I’m on top of things again. There’s way less confusion.
So why am I sharing this?
Because I want to keep improving this tool and share it with other dads who are going through something similar. I want to really polish it — so it actually makes life easier for all of us. So we don’t have to stand on a playground with our kids, wondering if we were supposed to buy crayons for tomorrow.
Are you in the same boat?
Would you be up for testing it with me?
Https://cozyparent.eu
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"I'm not a coder, I'm not a programmer, I'm not technical — but through experimenting" — that pivot from those three "nots" to "I'm experimenting" is the actual breakthrough. Curious about that first experiment: what specifically made you sit down and try the thing instead of researching it for another month? Was there a particular moment of "screw it, let me just see"?
The way you tell the story (CozyParent born from real pain) sounds like the pain was the trigger. But for most non-tech parents I talk to, real pain alone isn't enough — they still wait. What was different for you?
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It is a heavy realization when you discover that a standard calendar just isn't designed to handle the emotional and logistical weight of co-parenting where missing a single school event feels like a much bigger failure than a missed work meeting.
The real strength of this tool is that it was built from necessity rather than a business plan because most parenting apps focus on "sharing" with an ex whereas a solo-focused dashboard acknowledges that sometimes you just need to get your own house in order so you can show up fully for your kids.
Since you are using vibe coding to iterate quickly are you planning to add a "Preparation Countdown" that reminds you to buy those crayons or sports gear three days before the event starts so the last-minute panic disappears entirely?
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Thanks Muhammad,
Indeed. I am doing this to solve "my" problems first before going to shared territory. (You can share the calendar already if that's what you really want.)
I have "upcoming event" and "upcoming week" on backlog. With one goal. Like you mentioned. Remove last minute preparations and stress from not having essentials for the event ready for your kids.-
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Solving your own problems first is the most reliable way to build something that actually works because you are validating every feature against real-life stress rather than just a theoretical user persona.
Focusing on the "upcoming week" view is a major move for mental clarity since a big part of the anxiety in co-parenting comes from the transitions and making sure the kids have exactly what they need the moment they walk through your door.
I see this same value in my high-tier PR and media placement work where we find the "human-first" story behind a technical solution to build genuine authority on major platforms.
Are you thinking about adding a specific "Transition Day" checklist so you can quickly track things like medicine or school bags during the hand-off?
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Transition checklist is good idea, every kid and parent have different needs. It will be tricky one to do it right.
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Half a year ago, I split up with the mother of my two kids, who are eight and five. We agreed on a week-on / week-off co-parenting setup. On paper, we had everything figured out. But then reality hit. And I realized very



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