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July 12, 2026 Dating without the games

I’m building GetAtMe because modern dating apps are broken. They’re built around swiping, dopamine loops, ghosting, and endless conversations that never go anywhere. None of it creates real connection.

GetAtMe is a dating app built around intentional behavior. One message to start the conversation. Trust scores that reward people who actually respond. Match expiration so nobody gets stuck in dead threads. Weekly pacing so people don’t burn out. No bots, no spam, no infinite swipe addiction.

I’m building this solo, from a van, grinding 10+ hours a day. The app is about 90% complete and close to launch. My goal is simple: make dating feel human again.

If you want to follow the build or give feedback, I’m here.

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    If you’re interested in backing this project or contributing to community growth, I’m open to conversations.

    Reach me anytime at support@getatme

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    I like that you're redesigning incentives instead of just adding features.

    If the product consistently rewards intentional behavior rather than endless engagement, that's a much harder differentiation for competitors to copy.

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      Aryan Sinh,

      Thanks — that’s exactly the goal. Dating apps optimize for engagement, not outcomes. I’m trying to flip the incentives so intentional behavior becomes the default instead of the exception. It’s harder to build, but it creates a product that actually respects people’s time.

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        I'm glad it resonated.

        Reading your reply gave me one thought about what happens once those incentives start shaping user behavior. I'd rather explain it with your product in mind than try to compress it into a few comments.

        If you're interested, what's the best email to reach you on?

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          Support at my websites url our you can visit my site and scroll to contact

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            Thanks! I’ve just sent it over.

            Looking forward to hearing your thoughts whenever you have a chance.

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GetAtMe exists to fix modern dating. No endless swiping, no ghosting loops, no dopamine traps. Just intentional matches, one real message, and a trust system that rewards people who actually show up.