I'm so tired of being in the red

My todo lists are constantly red because I'm constantly barely scratching the surface. My duties, hobbies, and habits are in one big pile, with different time commitments, priorities, and urgencies. There has to be a better way ™️.

What I need is an app with a robust system of recurrence rules, prioritization, automation, and notification; an app that I rarely, if ever, need to actually look at.