How best to solve the solo side of solopreneurship?

Philip. this post is all about me. But I really just want to show that you are not alone in this issue. Its real. But its also solvable.

I am at about 10K MRR, with wife and 3 kids, and its the same. After quitting the 9-5 I battled away consulting from home, and had panic attacks during the transition away from regular income. All solo. And then came better projects and my own product and recently my own office. Still solo. I leave the house at 7:30 and get home at 6PM and speak to pretty much nobody during that time. At home nobody has any real idea what I do, though its all above board, and so there is no communication about it. I live in small town Japan, so there are no local entrepeneur meet-ups or co-working spaces. All up its quite lonely ... in that sense.

But its better these days, and here what I do/did.

• I talk to people online A LOT.
  I chat with other entrepeneurs in my space and in forums
  I organize masterminds (its hit and miss)
  I talk to customers and resellers
  I did hire a coach for a while

• I built a team
  I have a small group of good people, who are contractors that over time became the "team." Its very much mutual. They have their own projects and I help them. And they help me. They are all remote. They have good opinions and I try to step out of myself and hear them ( I tend to "know everything better than other people")

• I accept my role as captain of the ship
  There is a kind of meaningless cycle of "what should I do? what should I do " that goes on your head that doesn't take you anywhere no matter how long it runs. Even if there is nobody else on the ship, you need to make decisions, plot the course and steer the thing. Its lonely and its uncertain and you take wrong turns, but you are the captain and you just have to do it.

I believe this is what made co working spaces an interesting proposition. Could help address the daytime loneliness issue, so long as you can stay focused on your work. There’s probably at least one in your city. They each have their own personality though, and some can be pretty toxic, so YMMV.

I agree meetups are great.

1. You will make some good friends (Maybe not guaranteed)
2. You will remember why working alone does have its perks!
3. You will at least hear say other things going on the industry of interest to you
4. Might be able to find a co-founder?
5. If you don't have a positive experience you don't have to go back / can find a different one.

I am in the exact same situation... (700MRR). I completly understand your feelings :) . If you are interested maybe we can have some chat.. (I live in London,UK)

Hey Philip, I had the same struggle while working on my last project. So I decided to create a platform for online mastermind groups to "scratch my own itch" called Linhub.
Also, + most of @webapppro's suggestions.

I almost feel that I am an expert in guiding people through thought process. I enjoy doing it, so feel free to contact me.

regarding being alone, go out and relax, take breaks doing things totally unrelated helps

Having similar issues.

Strongly considering looking for a cofounder, but since it has to be a person of similar devotion and work ethic such as myself, I'm still not sold on the idea.

I don't think you can solve this problem with money only. Sure, there will be someone to charge you for this, but it will not cure the root cause.

Have you considered hiring an employee? If you've already built something profitable, you probably don't need to give away a piece of the pie just because you feel a little lonely at work, and you'll still have someone to talk to, bounce ideas off of, and maybe even hang around outside of work if you're lucky. Again, I'd try to make the decision from a business standpoint, like whether your business even needs an employee, but if you think you might use one you can give that a shot.

I'm finding it best when working in busy cafes or coworking spaces. With a little initial effort, I even meet new people, and some of them are cool.

Good luck.

Hey, I'd second the idea of affiliating with an industry or small business association. You'd immediately have access to people who have been through the same phase. In the UK we have organisations like the FSB, BCS and the IET. All provide mentor services. There may be something similar where you are.

Another option (if you only need a brief conversation) would be reaching out to people on LinkedIn where there are lots of approachable entrepreneurs. They are generally happy to provide an opinion or an idea.

Lastly, if you need something longer term, then maybe consider partnering with someone to share the burden. Here or any of the other sources above would be good places to start to find someone.

All the best!

Increase MRR enough to pay for an employee, or somehow manage to bring someone else in that shares your vision. Community is important.

@philipimperato Hey, are you open to exploring a collaboration for marketing and traction building for your project for a short-term or a long-term?

This comment was deleted 7 years ago

This comment was deleted 7 years ago

This comment was deleted 7 years ago