I can very much relate to what @csallen said while discussing about discipline and accountability @ https://www.indiehackers.com/csallen/post/d5073c226d?commentId=-LdKs4BE7UelyIKSufjD
But when you're working for yourself, it's easy to let all of this discipline slip. So having
Few I came across:
Can I ask what doesn't let you be focused and accountable now?
Of-course you can @AlexMartynov. It's just things like what I'm doing right now. Reading IH and going down the rabbit hole instead of working on my project ;-)
And why don't you stop doing things like these?
That's exactly the answer I'm trying to find @AlexMartynov :). I'm hoping to find the techniques others use to maintain focus, discipline and make things happen that can hopefully work for me as well.
The challenge(s) in my case seems to be what is described in the link @ http://www.thedistillery.life/2017/06/29/dont-read-startup-porn/ which I'm trying to overcome.
The problem with techniques is that they may not address the root cause.
Let's say you read IH and startup porn and don't want to do that. You just need not read it, right? But that's easier to say than do. And there is something which doesn't let you not read this stuff.
And it's crucial to know the nature of that thing before you pick the technique.
Appreciate your questioning btw @AlexMartynov. Thanks.
You're welcome :)
"How would you know and control it if you were to be in such a situation?"
You find it either with self-reflection or guided inquiry (similar to what we did in this exchange). As for control, it's about experimentation.
If you want we, can have a conversation to help you find a solution.
Message sent @AlexMartynov. Thanks for the offer.
Check your email. I've just replied to you
Ack.
Two things that have helped me the most.
Bonus: I'm launching https://accountabilitypledge.com to help add accountability to daily goals or 30 day type challenges. You may find that helpful as well :)
@cspags - Accountability Pledge is an interesting concept. More like paying a late fee I guess. But how are you going to enforce it? I did add myself to your list. Will keep an eye out.
As for Mastermind groups, the problem I have at-least with the ones I came across so far is lack of seriousness. I feel like at the end of the day it just has to come from within but the struggle is making that happen. I did send you a mail though to learn about the one you found to be good. Thanks.
Thanks for signing up! As far as enforcement, there will definitely be ways to cheat the system, but I'm hoping the audience that I'm targeting, people who want to be held accountable, will be more honest with it. Kind of like golf, you can cheat, but you're only cheating yourself :)
I agree with what you're saying about mastermind groups. I've had similar issues in the past with a lack of seriousness. The one I'm in now has $50/month member fees. I resisted paying for a mastermind for a long time, but now I see the benefit in that it ensures all the group members are serious.
Hope that helps!
For me, it's the complete lack of life outside of work (kind of true lol) and wants to run my own software company to prove myself.
Turn off sound on mobile, put it screen down and start working.
I have registered from your website but respond like below.
{"result":"success","msg":"<strong>Awesome! You are on the priority list.<\/strong>"}
@shyamady - Updated it to
{"result":"success","msg":"Awesome! You are on the priority list. Yes, you indeed are. We keep things simple and straightforward, just like this message. Thank you."}
:)Thanks!
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