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I’m building something people might love but never use.

I’ve been building Flouie, a place where you can capture your thoughts and things happening in your life, and eventually discover patterns and insights you might not notice yourself.

The product is coming together.

But there’s a problem I can’t solve just by adding another feature.

Will people actually come back?

Someone might use Flouie today and genuinely enjoy its immediate features.

But will they open it tomorrow?

Will they remember it next week when they have something they want to capture or jot down?

Will it become a natural part of their life, or slowly become another app they forget about?

That’s what I’m trying to understand now.

Because I don’t want to build something people say is “cool” and then never open again.

I want to understand what actually makes a product become a habit.

So I’m curious:

What apps have you used consistently for months or years?

What made you keep coming back?

And have you ever used a product you genuinely liked, but eventually stopped using? What made you stop?

I’m much more interested in the uncomfortable answers as of now!

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    Genuinely interesting question, and I think it's worth separating two different things that get bundled together: "will people open this again" and "will this actually stay useful to them." Some of the tools I've stuck with longest aren't ones I open often at all — they're ones that reach me instead of the other way around, so the habit isn't "remember to check this," it's just "trust it to tell me when something matters." The apps I've dropped were usually ones that needed me to remember they existed.
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      Really good point. If an app needs you to constantly remember it exists, you eventually just stop caring.

      I’d rather Flouie just sit in the background and only ping you when it actually connects the dots on something you wrote. Less noise, more useful when it does reach out.

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    The gap between nominal appreciation and actual daily utility is a silent killer for products that address "nice-to-have" desires rather than urgent, recurring pain points. If a tool inspires high praise during demo stages but fails to integrate into existing user workflows, it risks becoming a novel novelty that stays favorited in a browser tab but never actually gets opened.
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      100%. Nice to have apps get bookmarked and never opened again.

      That's why I'm mostly focusing on people who already write down their thoughts when they feel overwhelmed, but get nothing out of it.1

      If the habit of writing when stressed already exists, Flouie just makes that existing loop actually useful instead of a graveyard of thoughts.

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    Retention and habit formation are the hardest parts of building software. Even a great product gets abandoned if it doesn't solve an urgent daily loop. For me, apps that stick long-term are those deeply integrated into an existing workflow—like code editors or project management tools—where stopping means breaking daily productivity. If an app relies purely on conscious effort to open it, usage usually drops off.

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      That’s actually why I’ve started shifting focus away from "teach people to journal" and toward people who already do it.

      If someone is already dumping thoughts into Apple Notes, Notion, or a physical notebook every night, the habit is already there. The problem they have is that their notes just sit in a graveyard. For them, Flouie isn't a new daily chore they have to force themselves to do- it's an upgrade to an existing routine because it actually uses what they're already writing.

      Still, consumer habit loops are definitely a different beast compared to B2B tools where your job forces you to open them. Appreciate the perspective!

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        That is an incredibly smart pivot. Trying to change user behavior is notoriously difficult, but acting as a utility layer over an existing habit removes almost all the friction. You are essentially turning their static 'note graveyard' into an active asset rather than giving them a new chore. Since you are targeting people who already use Notion or Apple Notes, are you focusing on building direct import tools or integrations to make moving that existing data completely seamless?
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          Already done man! You can import messy notes and journals from multiple apps in multiple formats using a built in tool:)

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    The hard part is the return trigger. What would make someone open Flouie tomorrow instead of just liking it today?
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      Most people drop off journaling because staring at a blank page feels tiring.

      The angle I'm betting on with Flouie is that you don't come back to write an essay, you come back to see what the app connected about your past few days (muktiple features are targeting long term value). If you logged feeling completely drained on Tuesday, Flouie flags that it’s the third Tuesday in a row this happened after a specific trigger.

      So the trigger isn't "time to write", it's curiosity about what it noticed about you. Plus, keeping the daily input down to like 30 seconds (a single brain dump) so there's zero friction.

      Still testing this with early users to see if that's enough to build the habit, but curious what your experience has been with apps that actually got you to stick around (especially notes and journalling apps).

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        That’s a much more interesting return trigger than simply reminding people to journal. I’d be curious whether early users are actually coming back for specific patterns they discover, or whether the curiosity fades once the novelty wears off.
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          Actually, that's something I've been thinking about a lot too. I've been using this app for around two months, and I'm still excited to check my discoveries and patterns every day. That said, because it's my own product, I'm obviously a bit biased, and since it's only been a short time since the launch, it's too early to draw any conclusions.

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            That’s actually the part I’d be most interested in unpacking further, especially separating your own sustained curiosity from what early users are doing. Happy to continue that privately — what’s the best email to reach you on?
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              you can reach out to me on meharbhamrah attherate gmaildotcom (it won't let me type the mail :)

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                Thanks! I’ve just sent it over.

                Looking forward to hearing your thoughts whenever you have a chance.

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    i’d focus less on daily usage, does it need to be daily to provide value
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      That’s a fair point. I don’t think it necessarily needs to be daily.

      What I care about more is whether people naturally come back when they have a thought worth capturing, rather than having to remind themselves to use it.

      There’s also some immediate value when you capture a thought, since Flouie gives you relevant facts and context around that entry right away. So there’s a reason to open it beyond just "keeping a journal."