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Unrealistic expectations led me to emotional burnout

I thought I would build a rocketship in a couple of months! Of course this did not happen. I reflected on the emotional anguish I caused myself and how I'm going to improve in a blog post.

Reading about other peoples' entrepreneurial struggles always comforted me, so I'm hoping this post may do the same for someone else who is feeling dejected.

on February 13, 2022
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    @Robbie_R

    Yesterday I tried to learn a JavaScript framework called React. I figured I would pick it up in a couple of hours and conclude by building a simple website with it

    The fastest I’ve been able to teach react fundamentals is a week of hands-on training. Even then, a followup tutorial series from Udemy helps fill a lot of gaps. Becoming an “expert” in react takes years.

    In fact, it will probably take more than several months to achieve some level of success. My understanding of the startup literature suggests it will take at least 5 years, but probably closer to 10 to achieve the desired outcome.

    Sounds about right. I’m aiming for the five year mark to launch, may take 10 for my dream goals.

    a large and protracted amount of psychological anguish

    Welcome to programming…

    Some personal reminders

    Don’t give up! It’s a long road, but you’ll make it if you just keep moving forward. Even if you don’t understand where you are.

    Get a mentor! Someone to help review your code and get you out of a rut is one of the best ways to stay encouraged, motivated, and successful.

    Learn! Take lots of courses. Read lots of books. Never stop. I just made a list of resources for you that may be helpful https://www.indiehackers.com/post/best-paid-and-practical-ts-js-react-resources-0d7a56230d

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      Wow, I really appreciate the feedback and recommendations!

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    Hold on Robbie!
    Shit happens, take as much as you can from it, learn, memorize it, move on.
    Go smaller next time, and find the joy from doing what you are doing.

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      Appreciate it Bart - I'm definitely trying to focus on the process vs destination.